In Praise of Dogs

                  When I was growing up, “Rusty” was our family dog.  He was a Collie/Shepherd mix and lived to be 17.  He had many virtues.  For example, when I was disciplined for some misbehavior and exiled to my room, I took him with me. I would put my arms around his neck and pour my heart out, releasing all the feelings of injustice I carried.  As I looked at him and he looked back, I knew he felt my pain.

                  These days we have a 14-year-old, 8-pound Maltese “rescue dog” named Rue.  Like many of us as we get older, she’s lost some of what she used to have; in her case, 13 teeth and her left eye.  But such losses have not diminished her optimism or constant devotion, and I often share random thoughts with her during the day.  My wife will hear me from another room and say, “Are you talking to yourself or the dog?”  I always say, “The dog.”

                  I was in a local bookstore recently and came across a new collection of poems by Billy Collins entitled Dog Show. I rarely buy books of poetry, but I couldn’t resist.  It’s clear Mr. Collins understands dogs.  Here is one about an encounter he had one night in Paris:

“Le Chien,” a Poem by Billy Collins

I remember late one night in Paris
speaking at length to a dog in English
about the future of American culture.

No wonder she kept cocking her head
as I went on about “summer movies”
and the intolerable poetry of my compatriots.

I was standing and she was sitting
on a dim street in front of a butcher shop,
and come to think of it, she could have been waiting

for the early morning return of the lambs
and the bleeding sides of beef
to their hooks in the window.

For my part, I had mixed my drinks,
trading in the tulip of wine
for the sharp nettles of whiskey.

Why else would I be wasting my time
and hers trying to explain “corn dog,”
“white walls,” and “March of Dimes”?

She showed such patience for a dog
without breeding while I went on—
in a whisper now after shouts from a window—

about “helmet laws” and “tag sale,”
wishing I had my camera
so I could take a picture of her home with me.

On the loopy way back to my hotel—
after some long and formal goodbyes—
I kept thinking how I would have loved

to hang her picture over the mantle,
where my maternal grandmother
now looks down from her height as always,

silently complaining about the choice of the frame.
Then, before dinner each evening
I could stand before the image of that very dog,

a glass of wine in hand,
submitting all of my troubles and petitions
to the court of her dark-brown, forgiving eyes.

What a gift a good dog can be.

“Portrait of Rue,” photo by author; used with verbal permission from subject.

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“Le Chien,” by Billy Collins, from Dog Show: Poems, Random House, 2025.

Lead image: watercolor accompanying “Le Chien” by Pamela Sztybel.

Facing the Challenges

This has been an historic week in the U.S., and we are facing uncertain times.  Like many people, I’ve been trying to understand what happened and what it will mean. 

My thoughts have gone back to a piece I wrote several years ago, describing what I learned following the 2018 debris flow in Santa Barbara.  We were put into a prolonged period of uncertainty.  This is one idea that helped me navigate the situation:

Several years ago, I read a book by a Navy Seal who helped other vets get through PTSD experiences. He believed we have an option when we face hardship. Do we ask, “How will this affect me?” and passively let circumstances determine whom we become?  Or do we say, “Facing these challenges, how can I respond in a way that will help me become the person I want to be?” 

Past generations have gone through great challenges, and this may be our turn.  I want to do what I can, where I am, with what I have to meet whatever lies ahead. In the meantime, I will invest in the relationships, activities and principles that bring out the best in us.

I also want to let beauty renew me.  Here is a painting that captured my attention when I saw it in Vienna in September: Dusk, by Carl Moll, painted in 1902.  I’m not sure why it calls me to now.  Perhaps it’s the presence of light in the shadows.