“The phrase “the scales fall from your eyes” means to suddenly understand the truth about something that was previously unclear or hidden. It often refers to a moment of realization or enlightenment.”[i]
A friend once confided to me about an experience she had at a niece’s wedding. She had not seen the young woman for some time and was excited to travel across country for the celebration. When she first saw the bride and groom, she was struck by how “generously built” both were and couldn’t get that thought out of her mind. The time came for the bridal dance. As the couple stepped toward each other, they looked into each other’s eyes, and my friend said their faces were full of love and happiness. She said she was ashamed she had initially noticed only their outward appearance while being blind to their inner beauty.
Some years ago, I attended a five-day seminar in Berkeley with Marcus Borg, a prominent New Testament scholar. Borg was a calm, gifted and insightful teacher who prized good thinking and careful reflection. On the last day, one of the students asked him if he’d had any mystical experiences. He acknowledged he had but was reluctant to share. The students pressed him, however, and he told us his story.
After spending time in Israel, he and his wife had boarded a plane home. He had settled in his seat and was quietly observing the other passengers as they boarded. One man caught his interest – Borg couldn’t help but note he was particularly awkward looking. He also remembered looking at the back of the seat in front of him and thinking the vinyl upholstery seemed noticeably dull. He settled in and the plane soon took off.
A little while later, Borg felt the presence of light growing in the cabin. It seemed to illuminate everything around him with an unusual radiance; he was transfixed. He could tell no one else was seeing what he was seeing. The other passengers were immersed in this light, and each person seemed to be a wonder to behold; the gentleman who had looked awkward now seemed to bear a palpable dignity. Even the back of the seat in front of him now seemed fascinating. Borg’s wife could tell something unusual was occurring to him and asked him if he was OK; he nodded to assure her he was, not wanting to break the spell.
The mysterious light slowly began to dissipate, and soon everything in the cabin looked normal again. But he could not forget how, in those moments, it seemed he was seeing “reality” as it “really is” – permeated with light.
(In the stories shared by hospice workers and volunteers, this is not an unusual experience as people come to the boundary of this life.)
The phrase “the scales fall from your eyes” means to suddenly understand the truth about something that was previously unclear or hidden. It often refers to a moment of realization or enlightenment.
We go along in life, living with routine assumptions about the people we see and believing we know what “reality” is like. Then we have moments when “the scales fall from our eyes.” Like my friend at the wedding, we may suddenly discover how easily we misjudge other people when we look only at their outward appearance and instead begin to appreciate them in new ways. Like Professor Borg on the airplane, a sense of awe and wonder can come over us unexpectedly, suggesting there is a radiant presence within the everyday objects and people we encounter.
It can be a shock to realize scales are falling from our eyes. It can be liberating to discover what new truths are now revealed.
[i] Online version of the Cambridge Dictionary
Lead image: “Airplane window view with wing at sunrise;” Freepik.com
Steve Jacobsen, Ed.D 